“• Leaders gain credibility when they suffer with those they lead.”

“Humility means two things. One, a capacity for self-criticism. . . . The second feature is allowing others to shine, affirming others, empowering and enabling others.” —CORNEL WEST”

“Because as the challenge escalates, the need for teamwork elevates.”

“Individuals play the game, but teams win championships.”

“What people remember most is how you make them feel.”

“The challenge of leadership is to create change and facilitate growth.”

“You have to be yourself while speaking someone else’s language.”

“Learning is defined as a change in behavior. You haven't learned a thing until you can take action and use it.”

“The best way to develop rational, well-balanced confidence is to go after a few victories immediately following a failure.”

“Several years ago Dr. Maxwell Maltz’s book, Psycho-Cybernetics, was one of the most popular books on the market. Dr. Maltz was a plastic surgeon who often took disfigured faces and made them more attractive. He observed that in every case, the patient’s self-image rose with his and her physical improvement. In addition to being a successful surgeon, Dr. Maltz was a great psychologist who understood human nature. A wealthy woman was greatly concerned about her son, and she came to Dr. Maltz for advice. She had hoped that the son would assume the family business following her husband’s death, but when the son came of age, he refused to assume that responsibility and chose to enter an entirely different field. She thought Dr. Maltz could help convince the boy that he was making a grave error. The doctor agreed to see him, and he probed into the reasons for the young man’s decision. The son explained, “I would have loved to take over the family business, but you don’t understand the relationship I had with my father. He was a driven man who came up the hard way. His objective was to teach me self-reliance, but he made a drastic mistake. He tried to teach me that principle in a negative way. He thought the best way to teach me self-reliance was to never encourage or praise me. He wanted me to be tough and independent. Every day we played catch in the yard. The object was for me to catch the ball ten straight times. I would catch that ball eight or nine times, but always on that tenth throw he would do everything possible to make me miss it. He would throw it on the ground or over my head but always so I had no chance of catching it.” The young man paused for a moment and then said, “He never let me catch the tenth ball—never! And I guess that’s why I have to get away from his business; I want to catch that tenth ball!”

“If your habits don't line up with your dream, then you need to either change your habits or change your dream”

“If a team is to reach its potential, each player must be willing to subordinate his personal goals to the good of the team.”

“Real leadership is being the person others will gladly and confidently follow

“The whole idea of motivation is a trap. Forget motivation. Just do it.”

“Everyone is a leader because everyone influences someone.”